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Ask me anything!
As I mentioned in a previous post, I have a Q&A class session to be apart of tomorrow in my Human Sexuality and Intimacy course.

As a paranoid precaution, I'm offering anyone to ask me anything that deals with human sexuality (that means please don't ask me what the manifold on car does, etc).

So, want to know the REAL amount of eggs that are in the ovaries? Curious what the average penis size is? Ask me! I really want to know if I'm prepared or if I should hit the books in a serious way.

And even if I don't know the answer I'll be able to look it up pretty easily, and BAM! I know more!

Current Mood: curious curious

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From: millenia Date: January 15th, 2004 09:18 pm (UTC) (Link)
At Kristen's urging, I'm throwing this in, though I dunno how relevant it is:

If you're giving oral sex to a man with a thicker-than-average penis, how do you keep your jaw from hurting long enough to actually enjoy it?
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 15th, 2004 11:36 pm (UTC) (Link)
Ah yes, how DO people actually get their mouths around the shot glasses they use for "Blow Jobs"?

First thing I'd say is that "deep throating" is really over-rated. The most sensitive area of the penis for most men is on the underside, just below the glans (head). A very lickable spot that doesn't require a hurt jaw, and counting the seconds thinking "dear lord, is he DONE YET?"

Another strategy is when your jaw begins to hurt, taking a break, and using your hand for a bit isn't a bad thing. Remember that spot I talked about? It's sensitive to all types of touch. Running a couple of fingers, or the thumb over the area while resting up would most likely buy you some recovery time.
jack_pride From: jack_pride Date: January 15th, 2004 09:18 pm (UTC) (Link)
How come I don't get a prostate gland just 'cause I'm a girl?

(And what *is* the average penis size? And how many guys were measured in order to make this declaration? *g*)
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 15th, 2004 11:44 pm (UTC) (Link)
But you DO get a prostate gland! It's called the Skene's glands.

Some researchers (I can't recall the names off hand) did some autopsies on women and found tissue in the front wall of the vagina (where the "G" spot is located). This little spot is the hot button that usually causes female ejaculation if one manages to find it to press.

As for the average penis size, studies say anywhere between 5 to 6 1/2 inches. And heh, not sure how many men they "checked out" to find out this information. Sadly, information like this is rarely explained, just stated that "studies found" blah blah.
jack_pride From: jack_pride Date: January 16th, 2004 01:14 am (UTC) (Link)
Can I move my Skene's glands to my ass? KTHXBI :)
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 16th, 2004 01:23 am (UTC) (Link)

And hee, wouldn't it be nice if we could move pleasure spots wherever we wished?

Well, there IS Jay Medicine Hat that can hypnotize people and give them an errogenous zone on their forehead (it lasts a few weeks I hear). When it's touched by their partner, BAM! Instant orgasm. I really wish I could be hypnotized.
jack_pride From: jack_pride Date: January 16th, 2004 01:25 am (UTC) (Link)
'Kay, Thanks, Bye. *g*

You probably could be hypnotized if you trusted the person doing it enough, and wanted to be. Not that I've ever been hypnotized myself, but that's how I understand it. ::shrug::
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 16th, 2004 01:49 am (UTC) (Link)
A-ha! The abbrev. would have been obvious if I would have attempted to say the letters out loud! *Forehead smack*

And yeah, I've heard trust is a big part of it. Which is why I'll never be hypnotized. Heard too many scary things from Psych of what it can do to your head.
moisha From: moisha Date: January 15th, 2004 09:40 pm (UTC) (Link)

What if...?

What if you want to have anal sex but every time you try, you're partner can't get it in cause you're "too tight"?
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 16th, 2004 12:00 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: What if...?

*Nod* It's a bit tough because the anus doesn't produce natural lubrication and the surrounding muscles are very tight.

Lubrication is your best friend (sugar free!!). Some finger penetration after a lubrication is applied would likely help loosen the surrounding muscles. When penetration is attempted, the penis should also be lubricated (though, I cannot stress how important a condom in these situations is because of bacteria, even with proper hygeine. Though extra lubrication never hurt anyone. NO baby oil! That will tear the condom).

The best advice I can give is relax. It may sound a bit silly, but the muscles relax when you do.
darcydodo From: darcydodo Date: January 15th, 2004 10:20 pm (UTC) (Link)
What's the best way for a girl to bring herself to orgasm without using any... implements? ;)

(Well, it's obvious for a guy. *grin*)
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 16th, 2004 12:18 am (UTC) (Link)
The clitoris is an amazing thing. Did you know it has twice the nerve fibers than the penis (8,000 if you want to get technical)? Stimulation to and around the area is just lovely.

Another area that enjoys a touch by a digit or two is the inner labia (the two folds of skin lying inside the labia majora - the "lips" protecting the genitals). The inner labia (or labia minora) has numerous blood vessels and nerve receptors.

Stimulating the labia minora and around the clitoris is always a good start, and when the girl is ready, she can "hit" the clitoris directly. Some women just jump straight to the hot spot, others like to take it slow, while others like the feel of their fingers penetrating their vagina (though it's not as common as most men think it is).

Lastly, I'd like to emphasize that each girl needs to explore her own body to discover what will get her there. No ONE technique is right for everyone. Hell, there's several different types of vulva's (some believe a couple of hundred).
darcydodo From: darcydodo Date: January 16th, 2004 12:39 am (UTC) (Link)

Sounds like you'll do. ;)
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 16th, 2004 01:24 am (UTC) (Link)
Whoo! ^_^
nekoneko From: nekoneko Date: January 16th, 2004 12:16 am (UTC) (Link)
G-spot orgasms.. y'know.. WHOOSH. Anyway.. what IS that stuff anyway? It's not pee. It's DEFINITELY not semen.. what IS it? Water?

Hahah.. I remember my first one.. we both thought I peed. Soooo embarrassed. Oh well. We got married anyway. XD
ifritah From: ifritah Date: January 16th, 2004 12:26 am (UTC) (Link)
Sadly, there's lots and LOTS of controversy on the subject.

An analysis found it to have an enzyme (PAP, can't remember what it stands for) similar to semen, while others found it similar to urine. A third study found that female ejaculate had way more PAP than the urine samples the females gave.

So, right, it's not urine, but it's not semen. Let's call it PAP fluid! *Shrug*
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